Could not been said any simplier!! Very insightful perspective way of the present, past and future. Hope to master this skill. Thanks for sharing. :)
Regina, USA
As time goes on i find myself thinking of the past like a book i read. That child or girl or woman is "she" and somehow separate from me. Well, no reason i can't learn from a book, is there?
The future now, that is the unwritten book. But . . .i find myself thinking of it as a dream i might or might not have when i sleep again. That person isn't me either.
And even though my life is a good one, and i am striving to improve as a being, i find living this life to be somewhat of a mighty effort. I think one moment at a time is about all i can handle!
For me, if there is an awareness of thinking at all, (about past, present, or future) then I am not truly being present? The great tennis player, Arthur Ash coined the phrase "being in the zone". It refers to the mental state of a person who is totally absorbed in what they are doing and just allowing the knowledge and training of their whole being (of which the mind is only a small part) to function at its highest level. My own experiences of this have occured while playing an intense tennis match, skiing in challenging conditions, piloting an aircraft in crucial situations, and responding to an emergency, to name a few.
I do agree that the thought of either the past or the future can only occur in the present moment. And these suggestions for the skillful use of these thoughts are quite insightful and helpful. Thanks for sharing this perspective.
It will be easier when you realise that you always create your future .... in the present!
Your intentions at this present moment, your thoughts in the present moment cereate tomorrow. Like the thoughts and intentions of yesterday created today!
And: "not thinking" is a very rare state, try meditating on positive things, on love, peace etc. It will make you loving and peaceful and ... will create your future!
Pam,
Curacao (Netherlands Antilles)
beyond being present....is a better way of reflecting on your past and remain observant in the prsent...the other dimension which simulates thie kind of shaping our behaviour and learning
is experiential learning.Transformation for better living is life long process...not a one day
job.our perceptions and environment and biased events and with people who come with opprtunities and challanging situations all influence and shape our behaviour.just simple attitude influences our behaviour so much.all great scientists and philosophers who have changed this society not because of their orthodox thinking or living..but because of their
beyond being present status made their life in to most valuble and resourcefull .....................
Wow...what an insightful piece. Being total aware of and in tune with our present moments is essential and easier said than done most of the time. I especially like the part of being aware of our intention when we are doing something.....that happened to me today in "connecting" with a homeless person. I also really like the part about the skillful and unskillful uses of remembering the past and future. Too often we bask in those thoughts rather than focusing on the present.
It all sounds very nice and reasonable and logical. that is the trouble with it. This judgments are anchored to the past and inevitably drag the process down to the past.
there is no way all this can be practiced.
meditation is not a journey, has no path or destination. it is no tried and tested technique.
forget all the gurus anf their shastras.
just be still and silent..