Pay Attention To A Sense Of Space

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Whenever there is any grasping or aversion towards something, indeed whenever any hindrances are present, the mind is, to some degree or other, in a contracted state. It has, so to speak, been sucked in to some perception, some object of consciousness, has shrunk and tightened around it. Generally we experience this contraction in the mind as an unpleasant state of suffering. We can notice this contraction, this constriction of the mental space, in relation to both internal and external phenomena. It will be evident, for instance, with regard to some unpleasant sensation in the body, like tiredness, or a difficult emotion, such as fear. And we may also detect it sometimes in social situations, if a certain relationship is charged.

The clinging mind contracts around some experience, and then, because the mind space is shrunken, the object of that grasping or aversion takes up proportionately more of the space in the mind. It thus seems somehow larger, and also more solid – its size and seeming solidity both corresponding to the degree of contraction in the mind. With the object appearing then bigger and more solid, and the experience of contraction being painful to some degree, the mind without insight in that moment will usually react unskilfully. It will unconsciously try to escape the situation by increasing the grasping or aversion, in a way that only keeps it stuck or even makes things worse. For unfortunately this further grasping keeps the mind space contracted, or contracts it even more. This makes the issue, the perception, still larger and more solid, setting up a vicious circle in which the mind is trapped.

It can be very helpful, when the awareness is unwisely sucked in in this way, to pay attention deliberately to a sense of space. This can be done in a number of ways: by opening the awareness to the totality of sounds that are coming and going; by opening up the field of vision; by intentionally noticing the space around and between objects, and the space in any room or situation. Noticing space opens up the perception, and can begin to dissolve the vicious circle. Even attention to external physical space can help to open and ease the constriction of the mind, and can create a sense of space around an internal experience such as bodily discomfort or a difficult emotion.

Space is not emptiness, and emptiness is not a space of any kind. Rather, our investigation here is simply into how the mind gives solidity to experience and fabricates sufferings through the very ways we relate to, see, and conceive of things. We gradually learn to untangle the tangle of suffering. And again, like all deliberate shifts in the way of looking, the more we do it, the more accessible it becomes. The more we practice inclining the mind to notice space, the easier it becomes to actually open up some space in the perception and experience some relief.

Seed Questions for Reflection

How do you relate to the notion that the object of grasping takes up space proportional to the level of grasping? Can you share a personal story of a time your noticing space opened up perception and helped you dissolve the vicious cycle of false solidity? What helps you incline the mind to notice space?

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9 Past Reflections
GU
Jun 27, 2022
One , i think , crucial point has to be also kept in attention when we try what Rob Burbea is suggesting. That is, not to get driven into action from that tightness.
In many situations we may need to respond quickly and this holding back may not be practical. But there are many other situations where i can chose not to act from reaction
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Jun 25, 2022
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SU
Jun 21, 2022
Awe, this is a timely read and message for me… conflict, this is an experience I am having at present and I can see that my perception of this conflict fills my thought leaving little space for clear thinking and releasing attachment to this conflict. I’m humbled and am ‘rethinking’ this situation.
AN
Jun 21, 2022
Thanks .... Like to link with the 'Big-Bang' theory. While the Universe keeps expanding in Space, just tie ourselves with Universe and feel the expansion of our Space. !!
EP
Jun 21, 2022
I’m so grateful for this reflection. In the 1990’s, I delivered a talk in which I wondered, What if God is Space? Hardly knew what I meant then & glad to experience this very same awareness now.
DD
Jun 20, 2022
I agree that the object of grasping takes up space in the mind proportional to the level of intensity of the grasping. I learned that the object of grasping is never as important or solid as I think it is, and that perception and realization opens up space, helps me grasp less, and helps dissolve the vicious cycle of false solidity. I find the object is transient and doesn't bring what is sought. I've also learned that grasping contracts mind space and is a source of unnecessary suffering. Not grasping results in more mind space and helps me be freer and more happy and at peace. Those lessons help me incline the mind to notice space.
JP
Jun 17, 2022
Freedom from grasping or averting our desire is a challenge for all of us. We all have desires. There is nothing wrong in having desires.How do we relate to our desires determines our well-being. Unwise reactivity to our desires causes dukkha, suffering, bondage. Our mind gets contracted and stuck. We create our own suffering. I am learning as I am aging. There have been times in my life when my selfish desires took control of my mind and led me on to the path of suffering. Recognizing and accepting my suffering helped me to be free from my self-created suffering. Life is an ongoing journey with ups and downs. Learning from the downs has helped me to stay on the path of my well-being. When I remain open to myself, aware of what is happening in my mind and heart I do not get fixated and stuck and become a victim of the vicious cycle. I have learnt to create a gap between the stmulus and response, take deep breaths, become mindful of what is binding me and walk on the path of wel... View full comment
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Jazzy Jun 21, 2022
Thank you, you explained it so perfectly that I could understand what the article was about.
Many blessings
GO
govbria Jun 21, 2022
"When I remain open to myself, aware of what is happening in my mind and heart I do not get fixated and stuck"---thank you so much for this wisdom. Learning to practice making a gap between stimulus and response--good lesson!
Huge gratitude for your beautiful reflection. Thank you :-)