It Is Life That Asks The Questions Of Us

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The question can no longer be “What can I expect from life?” but can now only be “What does life expect of me?” What task in life is waiting for me?

Now we also understand how, in the final analysis, the question of the meaning of life is not asked in the right way, if asked in the way it is generally asked: it is not we who are permitted to ask about the meaning of life — it is life that asks the questions, directs questions at us… We are the ones who must answer, must give answers to the constant, hourly question of life, to the essential “life questions.” Living itself means nothing other than being questioned; our whole act of being is nothing more than responding to — of being responsible toward — life. With this mental standpoint nothing can scare us anymore, no future, no apparent lack of a future. Because now the present is everything as it holds the eternally new question of life for us.

The question life asks us, and in answering which we can realize the meaning of the present moment, does not only change from hour to hour but also changes from person to person: the question is entirely different in each moment for every individual.

We can, therefore, see how the question as to the meaning of life is posed too simply, unless it is posed with complete specificity, in the concreteness of the here and now. To ask about “the meaning of life” in this way seems just as naive to us as the question of a reporter interviewing a world chess champion and asking, “And now, Master, please tell me: which chess move do you think is the best?” Is there a move, a particular move, that could be good, or even the best, beyond a very specific, concrete game situation, a specific configuration of the pieces?

One way or another, there can only be one alternative at a time to give meaning to life, meaning to the moment — so at any time we only need to make one decision about how we must answer, but, each time, a very specific question is being asked of us by life. From all this follows that life always offers us a possibility for the fulfillment of meaning, therefore there is always the option that it has a meaning. One could also say that our human existence can be made meaningful “to the very last breath”; as long as we have breath, as long as we are still conscious, we are each responsible for answering life’s questions.

Seed Questions for Reflection

How do you relate to the notion that the meaning of life can change both by individual and moment? Can you share a personal story of a time you became aware of the fluid but real nature of meaning? What helps you answer the question of meaning in the present moment?

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Bette S Tiger
Apr 6, 2025
Traveling in Japan and coming to a most beautiful park and Shrine. The map in front of me had a star and said in English;"Are you here" -I assumed that translation got in the way and yet it made more sense -given that moment of beauty . Given being in my ninth decade I have learned to appreciate this moment -as all I have and now on to the next -as I text!
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Colleen Mac Mac Dougall
Mar 14, 2021
Frankl is an elder of wisdom, born out of pain and eternal hope for the human condition. He trusted beyond the moment though I sense he would come back to a core meaning his life held even as his circumstances had no apparent meaning.
A moment: In 2010, standing in front of the crash site marking how fear broughtdown the very mission of hopeHammarskjold was bringing, I remember the questionLife asked me: How will I and my generation respond to the call he began to open?
I return to that question, along with "Who can I be here so others can be and live their dreams?" every time I feel fatigued, alone.
To lve the questions Life asks me takes everything I got - always, a labor of heart, mind, and soul. I cannot not answer in the way I can at any moment ot time.
SS
Jul 2, 2020
Being in present moment. Awarenessof mind should be there. Consumption of things matters for our day to day life if possible.
AM
Jul 1, 2020
Choices a plenty. Constantly we are bombarded with making choices. Sometimes its difficult, most often it is confusing andrarely easy. Choice between 'this or that'. We are not familiar because we have not been woken up to the truth that it does not have to be between this or that but a third option. Beyond this or that there is 'My Way' as an option. Why not my way? This can remain as a question. The answer lies within the person. The truth is that a question always arises from an answer. No answer, no question. Most often answers appear through the process of Osmosis. We need to allow the question to rest and grow in the warmth of the answer. Then the answer appears when you are ready to receive it. The question disappears. The answer was always within you. At the necessitated time it makes it's appearance.
Life is not a question. life is an answer to it's desire, excitement and need to celebrate the created.
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Sandra
Jun 30, 2020
I think the general meaning of life for everyone is to learn to love ourselves, each other, & the world around us to the best of our ability.
SU
Jun 30, 2020
Spiritually, in life impermanence is the only permanence. The meaning of
thisfleeting human birth may be found in serving its core purpose of crossing the cycle of 84 to merge self into HIM.
​​​​​While practicing the Surat-Shabd yoga to achieve this you may have a glimpse of such an experience. The intellect and wisdom gained during this process may offer all the answers to move forward meaningfully.

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DD
Jun 28, 2020
All creation is one whole, one activity, one being that is constantly changing. There may be the appearance of separate and static, but the nature of real being is oneness and fluidity. The meaning of life is to grow individually and collectively, which means to be continuously responsive to constantly changing reality in a way that enhances growth. Awareness of that came to me through discussion, reading, reflection, and living, an awareness that was initially a whisper and has grown and continues to grow in volume, clarity, and depth. As stated earlier, what makes sense to me is that we are here to grow, and my inner voice and my best judgment help me know that.
JP
Jun 26, 2020
There is an existential approach or standpoint when it comes to asking the question what is the meaning of life. The meaning of life is not static and so is the question. Life is dynamic. Life is changing. How do I relate to this truth of life? By using the past frame of reference or by planning for thee future? My response to life is relating to life as it unfolds. The unfolding life presents specific challenges in the concreteness of here and now. We all are aware of the challenges we are facing at this time. We see the cruel face of mankind, the hurting heart of mankind, the angry outburst of mankind. This is an existential challenge to all of us. How do I relate to this existential challenge? I do not believe in remaining indifferent or quiet. I also do not believe in taking it in piecemeal or in a fragmented way. It is a systemic problem and it needs to be tackled in a systemic way. I am examining myself and becoming aware of my own biases and prejudice. Is my mind static? Am I h... View full comment
RA
Jun 26, 2020
Not so long ago, I was struggling with a person who lived near me. Her behavior seemed hostile, selfish, destructive, and obstinate all at once. In the face of directly observable facts-- like those that were recorded on video-- she rejected any notion of an agreed upon reality or set of baseline facts. I was simply flummoxed and at the end of my wits to understand how to deal with this person. Then it just so happened that I became aware of her extreme financial vulnerability. The room spun. Suddenly I understood why she couldn't meet me in 'reality'. My view of her transformed from 'destructive and obstinate' to 'scared and desperate'. I could see both of these views, and knew they were both stories -- two among many that existed simultaneously. This multiplicity of views does not mean that all views are equal, but exposes a nearly universal flaw in our thinking where we simultaneously assume there is only one right view (ours) and also identify with and c... View full comment
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Bansi Pandya Jul 1, 2020


Very well said Rahul. The life we see reflects our own unexamined, culture-bound assumptions, and expectations. If we see life as a transparent flow of consciousness and do not resist the flow then the story of a character would not start. Resistance is the character itself centered on conflict, comparison, contradiction, and competition, looking for meaning in its own chaotic story.
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Maggie Feb 19, 2021
Hi Rahul, your comment really resonates with me. I am going through something similar with a friend. I was struggling to reconcile two completely different perspectives on a situation, one of which (hers) I believed painted me as a bad person, and mine, in which I believed I had made the best decision under the circumstances. I thought it was an either-or; I didn't knowour perspectives could both exist simultaneously and didn't rule each other out. It took me several months to separate the concept of her response and my self-worth, so I could open myself to listen to her perspective and try to understand while still honoring and validating my own. Leaning into this confidence means opening myself to receive her (negative) response without letting it overwhelm my belief in my own decision. This was a painful learning experience but I believe important. Thank you for your words.