Element of Surprise

 it is a relieve when you just sit back at times and await the unexpected...when you do not have to figure out so much on everything. nice article  

 I am by nature a highly impatient person.  Little things: dropping something on the floor that I have to pick up; forgetting things (although I'm a fanatic note writer!); talking before I think; always being in a hurry with a hugely full daily schedule; etc.; etc. make me extremely angry - with myself!  I would like to slow down a bit to enjoy the moment (perhaps of nothingness???). I can never see myself meditating as my mind is always on something else.  But, these are some things I would truly like to work on!

 That old saying - when a door closes a window opens - sort of reminds me of inconveniences. Sometimes they see like the closing of a door. Not a BIG deal, but irritating at times. I have not had things I consider inconveniences for a long time. I think it is because I have chosen to think about what there is to be grateful for. I have been practicing that strategy for 6 years now - amazing how the approach changes things. I hope I continue to look at life this way. The difficult part is choosing to go with gratitude when it is MORE than an inconvenience. Baby steps, I guess - hopefully I will get there eventually for the bigger issues.

Until recently I had not known that walking my dog would open me up,to the beauty of nature, quietness and solitude. Living alone and working to make a living are necessary but having to walk your dog daily seemed like a real inconvenience. Until I started to pay attention to all the treasures I received once I forced myself to get out there with my little Trixie. Now I love the quietness, the sounds of nature when we walk on our nature trail and the complete solitude. Now I try to live in the moments when we head outside for a walk and feel blessed for,the I convince of having to walk my dog!

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I just read this amazing piece! So connected!

 The element of surprise is such a great thing, I am often in a rush and don't take time to think that delays are sometimes there to protect me.... I am thankful for the delays and for the opportunities I experience. 

 I have a perfect example, my mother lost her job in July, but this opened her mind to look at new work opportunities, move from one country where she has been living for 30 years and come closer to me. Sometimes a surprise element is an opportunity to change for the better.

 Some unexpected events makes us more resilient.

 This is very inspiring and very relevant to me right now. I am working hard to 'go with the flow' of life and not force my plans onto it. Things go better when we let go.

After reading the reflections of others, I came to the realization that there really are very few things in my life that are what I consider to be inconveniences.  It is for this that I am truly grateful and blessed.  The small inconveniences mentioned by many are just a part of everyday life.  A true inconvenience is disturbing and frustrating but should also make us examine our lack of patience when we over-react to life's little everyday inconveniences - ie. taking out the trash, finding a parking spot further away than you planned on a cold and rainy day, long line-ups when their is only one cashier open, realizing that you forgot your lunch, keys, etc.  Things can always be worse!

 I am grateful so often, I think, so when this prompt showed up I was a little surprised. How do I deal with inconvenience? Of course I was 'blessed' with several today...a wait at the grocery store, hot water that ran out when I wanted a good hot bath for a sore back, a gate that got locked and wouldn't come undone. Each time I noticed these I looked for my gratitude. And each time I said thank you for all of the times things worked just as I hoped they would. These tidbits today, humbled me and had me grateful for the good moments and hot water.

When my car "died" last February I decided to try to do without one for one year. I live close to the center of town and we have reasonable bus service. There are still times when I feel: "oh bother" when I realize I need to do something that would be so easy to do if I had a car or when I am pressed for time.This morning I was running late for getting to the Friends Meeting  for worship but when there is no choice you just do it. One of the blessings is that you don't get tempted to use the car when you would rather keep your carbon footprint low. Cold morning but I had time to marvel at the beauty of the red/yellow/orange and brown leaves on the trees I rode past. Also grateful that at age 72 I can still get up those hills and getting the exercise will help keep my heart strong. Feeling very blessed

 The car parked across the footpath and into the driveway made it impossible for my wheelchair to pass using the pavement.  I called and called, but no one came, so I turned round and went back down the block to the corner where I could exit the pavement onto the road, and rolled up along the road, something I hate doing in the wheelchair.  As I passed the house that had left its vehicle so rudely across the pavement a huge drop of rain fell onto my glasses.  Momentarily furious, I shouted at the house as I passed - then was suddenly overwhelmed with joy:  for the rain, for the road, for the ease of my rolling wheels - how lucky I am, how fortunate to have all this and the senses to love it all - 

 I pray to be able to stay aware more, search for encouragement as it comes and give encouragement to others.

 This opened my eyes, i am a person that always throws a fit when things don´t come out the way I want, I will try to learn from this and see it as something that wasn´t  meant to happen at that precise moment.

The desire to control, for me, is the biggest threat to accepting the invitation of the emergent world. 

 Being sent for training as a teacher, after 23 years , seems like a chore.The last two times I went to workshops ,however,turned out to be very inspirational and I am grateful for the insight and wealth of new ideas.

 The world is truly a great teacher. The blending of the Yin and the Yang leaves a lot of room for us to grow. The us I am referring to definitely includes me.

 I had an unexpected pregnancy when my other four children had finally reached school age .  She has added amazing joy to my life!

 inconveniences...  Taking the trash out, emptying the dishwasher, standing in lines at the pharmacy, anywhere for that matter provides us with moments to be mindful of the more difficult alternatives and our interconnectedness with the world.  For example, as one waits for a prescription, we have the opportunity to consider all who made this drug possible and be thankful.  As we do the mundane, not only can we offer it up; we can practice one of the fruits of the Spirit such as patience, we can connect positively with those around us and we can try to discover the presence of the Spirit in the world around us.
While I often fail and become frustrated, when I do focus the world is calmer, the event richer.

 One of the reasons that I am a watercolorist is to see the surprises one is able to produce with the paints and water. You have to be open to surprise in these incidences, for sure.  Sometimes they are happy accidents, sometimes they require extra work.  In either case, it's worth the ride! It lives!

 Gave this to my husband.  just what he needed. he was not looking at the world's surprises.