SEED QUESTIONS FOR REFLECTION: How do you relate to the notion of distancing ourselves from our wandering thoughts? Can you share a personal experience of a time when you became deeply aware of wandering thoughts? What methods have worked for you to get to a single-pointed placement of the mind?
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As human being brought up in this competitive world, we are confused and egoistic. By force of our habit we are stuck in wandering thoughts one after another in endless sequence. We can not control and we can't distance our self from these wandering thoughts. Learning to welcome them gracefully and observing it without any judgement is still within our scope. Let us not look for any method and let us not try to get to a single-pointed placement of mind. Let us remain at ease and in relaxed in these vast consciousness without exhausting and exerting.
What I have started to do is to observe my thoughts with compassion to myself and to the people about whom I am thinking. That seems to be make me more mindful and peaceful. May you all be peaceful, loving, happy and in harmony.
the question arise there is any fix time of meditation
Meditation calms my entire day. I find myself with more energy - perhaps because the energy that was utilised while following destructive thoughts is now channeled into my daily activities. Meditation also helps me to control my own actions - if I find myself at a fork in the road, and I am in the present moment, I am able to veer towards the peaceful side.
Mindful meditation has helped me to further accept whatever thoughts are there and not judge them. A favorite tip I read was to picture your wandering thoughts as clouds in the sky passing by so as not to become "stuck" on them, just observe them.
I have been meditating for almost 24 years and I still have many wandering thoughts and habits. I find when I am noticing what is happening in the present moment, and I notice wandering thoughts and habits, they can more easily disappear. If they stay I think it would be good if I would notice that they are staying. noticing what is happening and accepting what is happening is more of a key to mindful living than any particular method for reaching something that is not yet present. Methods can be useful but if overly focused on methods they can become a future goal moving one away from the present.. I believe there is "no knowledge, no attainment and no realization for there is nothing to attain." Present mindfulness is both the method and the goal making the journey and destination one. Thanks for the opportunity to respond. Warm and kind regards to everyone.