excerpted from Jacob Needleman's book "Time and the Soul"
SEED QUESTIONS FOR REFLECTION: How do you relate to the notion that *right away* is the opposite of *now*? Can you share a personal story of a time you became aware of the need to step away from *right away* and step into *now*? What helps you protect yourself from turning into a "hungry ghost?"
When I wake up in the morning right away I start getting ready for the day it takes me some time to truly wake up
then I sit down and I observe the process of waking and falling asleep .When I sit down long enough I can see that process of turning into hungry ghost more clear ..
Much grateful for the reading....
To me - while 'right away' is about getting lost in completing some task ; 'now' is about living this very moment with awareness.
i have personally chosen to spend few minutes with senior citizens - as moments of listening and feeling warmth of human connection. These are time spent in 'now' for me.
Silence sittings and the feeling of calm & content within help me to choose 'now' rather than 'right away'.
Thank you for the opportunity to share.
Life is a series of continuous moments of now
Right away...is a demand, a condition we want to happen at this very instance, a confirmation of our efficiency to get things done in a hurry. Now...is flowing with what is instead of making IT happen out there, I have to happen to be present, I have to put myself into the condition to be with what is.
Now, a settling in. A spreading out into the spacious allowing of what is here. Nothing separate.
Hurry!, "right now,"...a mind-filled contraction pushing against an illusory sense of separation.
"Now" gives me peace of mind and helps me find myself. But "right away" makes me lose myself and the purpose of my existence.
Fantastic and Energized Reverence to Loving Avatars of Creator...
Now is the state where seeker becomes the sought..
i.e..seeker realizes and cherishes the intrinsic ability to reflect the actions and thoughts of Self in the form of Love, Humbleness, Selfulness, Peace, Devotion, Courage, Fearlessness, Forgiveness, Acceptance, Justice Abiding, Gratefulness, Clarity, Transparency, Honesty, Listening, Learning, Compassion, Companionship,Empathy, Hope....................
In short- Now is Heaven and right away is hell...
Enjoy.
Love All......
For me, Right away has a sense of urgency whereas now has a feeling of peacefulness. When I was in Belize traveling village to village learning and sharing stories as part of my literacy project I felt I was recalibrated by the local culture to look at the idea of 'right away' as "now." Belizeans for the most part move at a much slower pace and when they would say "right away I will come" that could mean 5 minutes, an hour or several hours later because they tended to be in the moment of now with whomever and whatever was happening within their immediate physical space. It was liberating. And yes, admittedly, a bit frustrating for me at first, especially coming from the Northeast of the US which often runs at breakneck speed. To protect from becoming a 'hungry ghost' I do my best to remind myself to be present now with whoever I am in physical presence and with the task at hand. Progress not perfection. :)