Excerpted from Rachel Naomi Remen's blog. ​Her groundbreaking curriculumn, the Healer’s Art is now taught yearly in more than half of American medical schools and in medical schools in seven countries abroad.
SEED QUESTIONS FOR REFLECTION: What do you understand by the "field beyond right and wrong?" Can you share a personal story of a time when you were able to enter the field beyond right and wrong? What practice helps you develop the new eyes to see beyond right and wrong?
When I can truly step into that place, especially in intimate relationship. where I can let go and just hold space for my wife, regardless of what's going on with her; essentially, to be that strong rock of support that I know she needs at that time; that to me is being in that field of love, beyond right and wrong.
Kabir said"Hum Sab Mai,Sab Hai Hum Mai" When the life force is one,there is no question of any right/wrong.
Galib said" Duniya Me Hun,Magar Duniya Ka Talabdar Nahi Hun.
Bazar Se Gujra Hun,Magar Kharidar Nahi Hun
Jinda Hun Magar Jis ki lazzat Nahi Baki
Har Chand Hosho Me Hun, Magar Hoshiyar Nahi Hun"
In this condition where is the scope for any judgement on wrong/right.
The field beyond right or wrong is the place where we accept what has happened without judgment. Where we allow ourselves to learn from the experience without beating ourselves up about it. What has happened, has happened, we can become incapacitated by it or learn from it. I do my best to live in this area of acceptance of myself and of others, often asking myself to be as gentle with me as I try to be with other people. A small example is in conversations we have where later we might think of something more compassionate or serving to say. What we can do is pause in a conversation, take a moment to truly reflect and then speak from our heart from that field beyond right or wrong, taking both perspectives into account. <3