Creative Living
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ನನà³à²¨à²¨à²‚ಬಿಕೆಯ ಪà³à²°à²•à²¾à²°, ಸೃಜನಶೀಲ ಬದಕಿನ ಬಗೆಯ ಮೂಲà²à³‚ತ ಪà³à²°à²¶à³à²¨à³† à²à²¨à³†à²‚ದರೆ: ನೀವà³, ನಿಮà³à²®à³Šà²³à²—ಿನ ಕಣà³à²£à²¿à²—ೆ ಕಾಣಿಸದ ನಿಧಿಗಳನà³à²¨à³ ಮà³à²‚ದಕà³à²•à³† ತರà³à²µ ಧೈರà³à²¯ ಹೊಂದಿದà³à²¦à²¿à³•à²°à²¾?
ನೋಡಿ, ನಿಮà³à²® ಒಳಗೆ à²à²¨à³ ಅಡಗಿದೇ ನನಗೆ ಗೊತà³à²¤à²¿à²²à³à²², ನಿಮಗೂ ಅದರ ಬಗà³à²—ೆ ಅರವಿರದಿರಬಹà³à²¦à³. ಆದರೂ ನಿಮಗೆ ಅದರ ಸà³à²³à³à²µà²¿à²¦à³† ಎಂದೠನನà³à²¨ ಅನಿಸಿಕೆ. ನನಗೆ ನಿಮà³à²® ಸಾಮರà³à²¥à³à²¯, ನಿಮà³à²® ಆಕಾಂಕà³à²·à³†à²—ಳà³, ನಿಮà³à²® ಅà²à²¿à²²à²¾à²·à³†à²—ಳೠಮತà³à²¤à³ ನಿಮà³à²® ರಹಸà³à²¯ ಪà³à²°à²¤à²¿à²à³†à²—ಳ ಬಗà³à²—ೆ ಗೊತà³à²¤à²¿à²²à³à²². ಆದರೆ ಖಂಡಿತವಾಗಿಯೂ à²à²¨à³†à³‚ೕ ಒಂದೠಅದà³à²à³à²¤ ನಿಮà³à²® ಒಳಗೆ ಆಶà³à²°à²¯ ಪಡೆದಿದೆ. ನಾನೠಇದನà³à²¨à³ ತà³à²‚ಬಾ ಆತà³à²®à²µà²¿à²¶à³à²µà²¾à²¸à²¦à²¿à²‚ದ ಹೇಳà³à²¤à³‡à²¨à³†. à²à²•à³†à²‚ದರೆ, ನಾನೠನಾವೆಲà³à²² ಅಡಗಿರà³à²µ ನಿಧಿಗಳ ಜೀವಂತ à²à²‚ಡಾರ ಎಂದೠನಂಬಿರà³à²µà²µà²°à²²à³à²²à²¿ ಒಬà³à²¬.
. ಇದೠಬà³à²°à²¹à³à²®à²¾à²‚ಡ, ತನà³à²¨ ಮನೋರಂಜನೆಗಾಗಿ ಮತà³à²¤à³ ನಮà³à²® ಮನೋರಂಜನೆಗಾಗಿ, ಮಾನವರ ಮೇಲೆ ನಡೆಸà³à²¤à²¿à²°à³à²µ ಹಳೆಯ ಮತà³à²¤à³ ಅತà³à²¯à²‚ತ ಉದಾರ ತಂತà³à²°à²—ಳ ಒಂದೠಆಟ ಎಂದೠನನà³à²¨ ನಂಬಿಕೆ: ಬà³à²°à²¹à³à²®à²¾à²‚ಡವೠನಮà³à²® ಒಳಗೆಲà³à²²à³‹
ತà³à²‚ಬ ಆಳದಲà³à²²à²¿ ಆà²à²°à²£à²—ಳನà³à²¨à³ ಅಡಗಿಸಿ, ನಾವೠಅದನà³à²¨à³ ಗà³à²°à³à²¤à²¿à²¸à²¬à²¹à³à²¦à³‡ ಎಂದೠಹಿಂದಿನಿಂದ ಗಮನಿಸà³à²¹à³à²¤à²¿à²¦à³†.
ಈ ಅಡಗಿರà³à²µ ಆà²à²°à²£à²—ಳನà³à²¨à³à²¹à³à²¡à³à²•à³à²µ ಪà³à²°à²¯à²¤à³à²¨à²µà³‡ ಸೃಜನಶೀಲ ಬದಕೠ- ಈ ಹಾದಿಯಲà³à²²à²¿ ದà³à²¯à²°à³à²¯à²µà²¾à²—ಿ ಹಾಕà³à²µ ಮೊದಲ ಹೆಜà³à²œà³†à²¯à³‡ ನಮà³à²® ಸಾಮಾನà³à²¯ ಬದಕನà³à²¨à³ ಮಂತà³à²° ಮà³à²—à³à²¦ ಮಾಡà³à²¤à²¦à³†.
ಈ ಪರಿಶೋದವೠಆಗಾಗà³à²—ೆ ಅಚà³à²šà²°à²¿ ಫಲಿತಾಂಶಗಳೠತರà³à²¤à³à²¤à²¦à³† - ಅದನà³à²¨à³‡ ನಾನೠದೊಡà³à²¡ ಮಂತà³à²°à²œà²¾à²² ಎಂದೠಕರೆಯà³à²¤à³à²¹à³‡à²¨à³†.
ನಾನೠಇಲà³à²²à²¿ "ಸೃಜನಶೀಲ ಬದà³à²•à²¿à²¨" ಬಗà³à²—ೆ ಮಾತನಾದà³à²¤à²¿à²°à³à²µà²¾à²— , ನಾನೠವೃತà³à²¤à²¿à²ªà²°à²µà²¾à²—ಿ ಅಥವಾ ಪà³à²°à²¤à³à²¯à³†à³•à²•à²µà²¾à²—ಿ ಕಲೆಗಳಿಗೆ ಮೀಸಲಾಗಿರà³à²µ ಬದà³à²•à²¿à²¨ ಬಗà³à²—ೆಯಷà³à²Ÿà³‡ ಮಾತಾಡà³à²¤à³à²¤à²¿à²²à³à²². ಬಯಕà³à²•à²¿à²‚ತಾ ಕà³à²¤à³‚ಹಲ ತà³à²‚ಬಿರà³à²µ ಜೀವನ ಶà³à²¯à²²à²¿à²¯ ಬಗà³à²—ೆ ಮಾತಾದà³à²¤à²¿à²¦à³à²¦à³€à²¨à²¿..
ನಾನೠಇತà³à²¤à²¿à³•à²šà²¿à²¨ ವರà³à²·à²—ಳಲà³à²²à²¿ ನೋಡಿದ ಸೃಜನಶೀಲ ಬದà³à²•à²¿à²¨ ಉದಾಹರಣೆಗಳಲà³à²²à²¿ ಒಂದೠನನà³à²¨ ಸà³à²¨à³‡à²¹à²¿à²¤à³† ಸೂಸನೠದà³. ಅವರೠ40 ವರà³à²·à²¦à²µà²³à²¾à²—ಿದà³à²¦à²¾à²— ಫಿಗರೠಸà³à²•à³†à³•à²Ÿà²¿à²‚ಗೠಮಾಡಲà³à²¤à³Šà²¡à²—ಿದರà³. ನಿಖರವಾಗಿ ಹೇಳಬೇಕೆಂದರೆ, ಅವರಿಗೆ ವಾಸà³à²¤à²µà²µà²¾à²—ಿ ಈಗಾಗಲೇ ಸà³à²•à³†à³•à²Ÿà³ ಮಾಡà³à²µà³à²¦à³ ತಿಳಿದಿತà³à²¤à³. ಬಾಲà³à²¯à²¦à²²à³à²²à²¿ ಫಿಗರೠಸà³à²•à³†à³•à²Ÿà²¿à²‚ಗೠಸà³à²ªà²°à³à²¦à³†à²¯à²²à³à²²à²¿ ಬಾಗವಸಿದà³à²¦à²°à³, ಆದರೆ ಅವರೠಒಂದೠಚಾಂಪಿಯನೠಎನà³à²¨à³à²µà²·à³à²Ÿà³ ಪà³à²°à²¤à²¿à²à³† ಹೊಂದಿರಲಿಲà³à²² ಸà³à²ªà²·à³à²Ÿà²µà²¾à²¦à²¾à²—, ಪà³à²°à³Œà²¢à²¾à²µà²¸à³à²¥à³†à²¯à²²à³à²²à²¿ ಫಿಗರೠಸà³à²•à³†à³•à²Ÿà²¿à²‚ಗನà³à²¨à³ ತà³à²°à³à²œà²¿à²¸à²¿à²¦à³à²¦à²°à³.
ಒಂದೠಮà³à²‚ದಿನ ಕಾಲೠಶತಮಾನದ ಸà³à²¸à²¾à²¨à³ ಸà³à²•à³†à³•à²Ÿà³ ಮಾಡಲಿಲà³à²². ಅವರ ೪೦ರ ವಯಸà³à²¸à²¿à²¨à²²à³à²²à²¿ ಜೀವನ ತà³à²‚ಬಾ ಪà³à²°à²•à³à²·à³à²¬à³à²§ ಆಗಿತà³à²¤à³. ಅವರಿಗೆ ಮಂಕೠಮತà³à²¤à³ à²à²¾à²° ಎಂದೠಅನಿಸà³à²¤à²¿à²¤à³à²¤à³. ಅವರೠತನಗೆ ತಾನೆ ಯಾವಾಗ ಕೊನೆಯ ಬಾರಿ ಹಗà³à²°à²µà²¾à²—ಿ, ಆಹà³à²²à²¾à²¦à²•à²°à²µà²¾iಗಿ ಅನà³à²¬à²µà²µà²¾à²—ಿದà³à²¦à³ ಎಂದೠಪà³à²°à²¶à³à²¨à²¿à²¸à²¿à²•à³Šà²‚ಡರà³. ಇಂತಹ à²à²¾à²µà²¨à³†à²—ಳನà³à²¨à³ ಹದಿಹರೆಯದವಲಾಗಿದà³à²¦à²¾à²— ಫಿಗರೠಸà³à²•à³†à³•à²Ÿà²¿à²‚ಗನಲà³à²²à²¿ ಕೊನೆಯ ಬಾರಿ ಅನà³à²à²µà²¿à²¸à²¿à²¦à³à²¦à³ ಅರಿವಾದಾಗ ಅವರಿಗೆ ಆಘಾತವಾಯಿತà³. ಅವರೠಇದೠಇಷà³à²Ÿà³ ವರà³à²· ತನà³à²¨ ಜೀವನದ ಈ ಅನà³à²µà³†à³•à²·à²£à³†à²¯à²²à³à²²à²¿ ತನಗೆ ತಾನೆ ವಿದಿಸಿಕೊಂಡ ದಿಗà³à²¬à²‚ದನೆ ಎಂದೠದಿಗಿಲಾಯಿತà³, ನಾನೠಇನà³à²¨à³‚ ಫಿಗರೠಸà³à²•à³†à³•à²Ÿà²¿à²‚ಗಅನà³à²¨à³ ಪà³à²°à²¿à³•à²¤à²¿à²¸à³à²¤à³à²¤à²¿à²¦à³à²¦à³†à²¨à³†à²¯à³‡ ಎಂದೠಕà³à²¤à³‚ಹಲವಿತà³à²¤à³.
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ಈ ಕà³à²¤à³‚ಹಲದಿಂದಲೇ ಹೊಸ ಜೋಡಿ ಸà³à²•à³†à³•à²Ÿà³ ಖರೀದಿಸಿದರà³, ಸà³à²•à³†à³•à²Ÿà³ ಮಾಡà³à²µ ಜಾಗವನà³à²¨à³ ಕಂಡà³à²•à³Šà²‚ಡರà³, ತರಬೇತà³à²¦à²¾à²°à²°à²¨à³à²¨à³ ನೇಮಸಿಕೊಂಡರà³. ತನà³à²¨à³Šà²³à²—ೆ ಕೇಳà³à²¸à³à²¤à²¿à²¦à³à²¦ " ಈ ಅನà³à²šà²¿à²¤ ಚಟà³à²µà²Ÿà²¿à²•à³† ನಡೆಸಲೠತಾನೠಸà³à²µà³‡à²šà³à²›à²¾à²à³‹à²—ಿ, ಅಸಂಬದà³à²¦" ಎಂದೠಕೇಳà³à²¤à²¿à²¦à³à²¦ ಒಳ ದà³à²µà²¨à²¿à²¯à²¨à³à²¨à³ ನಿರà³à²²à²•à³à²·à²¿à²¸à²¿à²¦à²³à³. ಎಲà³à²²à²¾ ಚಿಕà³à²•, ಹಗà³à²°à²µà²¾à²¦ ಒಂಬತà³à²¤à³ ವರà³à²·à²¦ ಹà³à²¡à³à²—ಿಯರ ನಡà³à²µà³† ಮಂಜà³à²—ಡà³à²¡à³†à²¯ ಮೇಲೆ ತಾನೋಬà³à²¬à²²à³‡ ಮಧà³à²¯à²µà²¯à²¸à³à²• ಮಹಿಳೆ ಎಂಬ ತೀವà³à²°à²µà²¾à²¦ ಸà³à²µà²¯à²‚ ಪà³à²°à²œà³à²žà³†à²¯à²¨à³à²¨à³ ಬದಿಯಲà³à²²à²¿à²Ÿà³à²²à²°à³.
ಅವಳೠಅದನಷà³à²Ÿà³‡ ಮಾಡಿದರà³. (ಫಿಗರೠಸà³à²•à³‡à²Ÿà²¿à²‚ಗà³).
ಸà³à²¸à²¾à²¨à³ ಒಂದೠವಾರದಲà³à²²à²¿ ಮೂರೠದಿನ ಬೆಳಗà³à²—ೆ, ಮà³à²‚ಜಾನೆ ಎದà³à²¦à³ ಸà³à²•à³†à³•à²Ÿà²¿à²‚ಗೠಹೋದರà³. ಅವರೠಸà³à²•à³‡à²Ÿà²¿à²‚ಗೠಅà²à³à²¯à²¾à²¸ ಮಾಡಿದರà³, ಅà²à³à²¯à²¾à²¸ ಮಾಡಿದಳà³, ಅà²à³à²¯à²¾à²¸ ಮಾಡಿದರà³. ಹೌದà³, ಅವರಿಗೆ ತà³à²‚ಬ ಇಷà³à²Ÿ ಆಯಿತà³. ಎಂದಿಗಿಂತಲೂ ಇನà³à²¨à²·à³à²Ÿà³, à²à²•à³†à²‚ದರೆ ಬಹà³à²¶à²ƒ, ಈಗ ವಯಸà³à²•à²°à²¾à²¦à³à²¦à²°à²¿à²‚ದ, ಅವರಿಗೆ ತನà³à²¨ ಸಂತೋಷದ ಮೌಲà³à²¯à²µà²¨à³à²¨à³ ಪà³à²°à²‚ಶಸಿಸà³à²µ ದೃಷà³à²Ÿà²¿à²•à³†à³‚ೕನದಿಂದ ಅರಿವಿತà³à²¤à³. ಸà³à²•à³†à³•à²Ÿà²¿à²‚ಗೠಅವರಲà³à²²à²¿ ಜೀವತà³à²‚ಬಿ ಮತà³à²¤à³ ಕಾಲಾತೀತ ಮಾಡಿತà³.
ಅವರೠತನà³à²¨ ದೈನಂದಿನ ಜವಾಬà³à²¦à²¾à²°à²¿à²—ಳನà³à²¨à³ ಮತà³à²¤à³ ಕರà³à²¤à²µà³à²¯à²•à²¿à²‚ತ ಹೆಚà³à²šà³†à³•à²¨à³‚ ಅಲà³à²²à²¦ ಗà³à²°à²¾à²¹à²• ಎಂದೠಬಾವಿಸà³à²µà³à²¦à²¨à³à²¨à³ ನಿಲà³à²²à²¿à²¸à²¿à²¦à²³à³.
ಅವರೠತನಗೂಸà³à²•à²° ಸà³à²µà²¤à²ƒ à²à²¨à³†à³‚ೕ ಮಾಡà³à²¤à³à²¤à²¿à²¦à³à²¦à²°à³.
ಅವರಿಗೆ ಮಂಜà³à²—ಡà³à²¡à³† ಮೇಲೆ ತಿರà³à²—à³à²¤à³à²¤à²¾, ತಿರà³à²—à³à²¤à³à²¤à²¾ ಮತà³à²¤à³† ಹೊಸ ಜೀವ ತà³à²‚ಬಿತà³, ಇದೠಅಕà³à²·à²°à²¶à²ƒ ಒಂದೠಕà³à²°à²¾à²‚ತಿಯೇ.
ದಯವಿಟà³à²Ÿà³ ಗಮನಿಸಿ. ನನà³à²¨ ಸà³à²¨à³†à³•à²¹à²¿à²¤à³† ತನà³à²¨ ಕೆಲಸ ಬಿಟà³à²Ÿà³ ಒಲಂಪಿಕೠಮಟà³à²Ÿà²¦ ಸà³à²•à³†à³•à²Ÿà²¿à²‚ಗೠತರಬೇತà³à²¦à²¾à²°à²° ಕೆಳಗೆ ಒಂದೠವಾರದಲà³à²²à²¿ 70 ಗಂಟೆಗಳ ಅಧà³à²¯à²¯à²¨ ಮಾಡಲೠಟೊರೊಂಟೊಗೆ ಹೋಗಲಿಲà³à²². ಇಲà³à²², ಈ ಕಥೆ ತನà³à²¨ ಯಾವà³à²¦à³†à³• ಪದಕಗಳನà³à²¨à³ ಗೆಲà³à²²à³à²µà²¦à²°à²¿à²‚ದ ಕೊನೆಗೊಂಡಿಲà³à²². ವಾಸà³à²¤à²µà²µà²¾à²—ಿ, ಈ ಕಥೆಗೆ ಅಂತà³à²¯à²µà²¿à²²à³à²². ತನà³à²¨ ಜೀವನದ ಒಂದೠನಿರà³à²¦à²¿à²·à³à²Ÿ ಸೌಂದರà³à²¯ ಮತà³à²¤à³ ಉತà³à²•à³ƒà²·à³à²Ÿà²¤à³† ಬಯಲಾಗಲೠಅತà³à²¯à³à²¤à³à²¤à²® ಮಾರà³à²—ವಾಗಿದೆ ಎಂದà³à²•à³Šà²‚ಡೠಸà³à²¸à²¾à²¨à³ ಇನà³à²¨à³‚ ಸà³à²•à³†à³•à²Ÿà²¿à²‚ಗà³- ಕೇವಲ ಫಿಗರೠಸà³à²•à³†à³•à²Ÿà²¿à²‚ಗೠಮಾಡà³à²¤à²¿à²¦à³à²¦à²¾à²°à³†. ನಾನೠಇದನà³à²¨à³‡ ಸೃಜನಶೀಲ ಬದಕೠಎಂದೠಕರೆಯà³à²¤à³€à²¨à³† .
ಪà³à²°à²¤à²¿à²«à²²à²¨à²•à³à²•à³† ಬೀಜ ಪà³à²°à²¶à³à²¨à³†:
"ಸೃಜನಶೀಲ ಬದಕà³" ಎಂದರೆ ನಿಮಗೇ à²à²¨à³?
ನಿಮà³à²® ಜೀವನದಲà³à²²à²¿ ಆಹà³à²²à²¾à²¦à²•à²° ಮತà³à²¤à³ ವಿಸà³à²®à²¯à²•à³à²•à³† ಉಂಟà³à²®à²¾à²¡à²¿à²¦ ಸಮಯದ ಒಂದೠವೈಯಕà³à²¤à²¿à²• ಕಥೆ ಹಂಚಿಕೊಳà³à²³à²¬à²¹à³de?
ನೀವೠಸೃಜನಶೀಲ ಬದಕನà³à²¨à³ ಸà³à²ªà²°à³à²¶à²¿à²¸à²²à³ à²à²¨à³ ಸಹಾಯ ಮಾಡà³à²¤à²¦à³†?
Excerpted from Elizebeth Gilbert's book "Big Magic."
SEED QUESTIONS FOR REFLECTION: What does "creative living" mean to you? Can you share a personal story of a time you were able to tap into what makes you truly light, joyous and creative in your own skin? What helps you tap into creative living?
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13 Past Reflections
On Sep 5, 2016 Dorothy Loutfy wrote :
Inspiring! I'm gonna write a poem and draw a picture today!
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On Aug 28, 2016 Amin wrote :
Creative living in my opinion is having fun expressing yourself through your passion/art, in my case martial arts.
When I train and let my techniques and body go without worrying about external factors like the person in front of me, I really feel alive and that's when I shine the most. In that moment there's nothing in my mind, is just me enjoying myself while being relaxed doing my things.
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On Jun 1, 2016 Wanda wrote :
To me, creative living means liberation. Liberation from the labels of others. Liberation from toxic and negative people. It means living mindfully in the present to the good of yourself and others. It is freedom from judging others. It is having realistic expectations of yourself and others. Creative living is being your authentic self with pride and self confidence. Creative living is simple, joyous, and honest.
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On May 31, 2016 Jagdish P Dave wrote :
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On May 31, 2016 Susan B. wrote :
Elizabeth, I am inspired by your writing... I've had a desire to live around the world, to work and live in different communities. My life has been quite mainstream as a single mom focused on children and family and providing. My daughters are grown and on their way in their lives now... still I couldn't figure out how to make this live/work idea come to life for myself... then I lost my job and, to coin a business term, a forcing function occurred in the need to find a new job. I began to spread my net of out reach for a new job, as well as my networking and some educational efforts, to include opportunities abroad... I also allowed myself to dream more about the possibilities, what it might look like, how it might feel to actually live and work in another country... low and behold, I was recruited for a job in China - I accepted! And my exciting journey to live and work in other communities has begun!
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On May 31, 2016 Ken Elkind wrote :
We now can all find our creative lives by joining our global community drum circle. You have to be, or have been a drummer to express joy in banging on a drum. It's the instinct that allows us to join community drum events. There is a reason we can all do this, and uniting all people musically on Earth,is our evolutionary duty. ww.groovism.org is the gateway site to gathering of our globe.
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On May 30, 2016 Anna wrote :
To me creative living is feeling spiritually connected to nature, to the universe, and to all mankind. I have had moments of such joy in experiencing that connectedness, of knowing that I am in the right place at the right time and at peace with the universe. In those moments I have felt the warmth of joy and of just letting go.
Unfortunately those moments do not come often enough. I feel so disconnected by the humdrum of each day's obligations, duties and chores. I long to be free, to feel the breeze of the wind and the warmth of a setting sun, to pull me out of this stagnating life.
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On May 28, 2016 Kristin Pedemonti wrote :
Creative Living for me means living fully while sharing the gifts (treasures) we possess. I feel truly grateful that for whatever reason I have been able to do this most of my life. Perhaps it came from growing up in such an unhappy and stressful childhood, that in my 20s I decided to live on my own terms and that continued to blossom up to present day late 40's. Two items I never leave home without: Free Hugs sign and bubbles to share. I thought Id include my 5 minute TED for you all that speak to this magic of discovering joy in small moments: www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Vp2WNkQB0o
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On May 28, 2016 david doane wrote :
Creative living means spontaneity and improvisation. It means having no plan, no predetermined goal or outcome, and instead being in the present, responsive to what is happening within and without moment by moment. It means being out of my head, especially my left brain, and operating out of my guts and right brain. It means mining the buried treasure within and bringing it to the surface. It means being alive. During the moments of living that way, I am light, joyous and creative, and it's wonderful. What initially helped me tap into creative living, other than the first year or so of life when I suppose we're all that way, was being with someone who was living creatively. That was inspiring. The experience lit my pilot light, which has at times been neglected but never gone out, and I sometimes turn on and allow the pilot to become a full flame. Doing it helps me do it more often.
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On May 28, 2016 david doane wrote :
Creative living means spontaneity and improvisation. It means having no plan, no predetermined goal or outcome, and instead being in the present, responsive to what is happening within and without moment by moment. It means being out of my head, especially my left brain, and operating out of my guts and right brain. It means mining the buried treasure within and bringing it to the surface. It means being alive. During the moments of living that way, I am light, joyous and creative, and it's wonderful. What initially helped me tap into creative living, other than the first year or so of life when I suppose we're all that way, was being with someone who was living creatively. That was inspiring. The experience lit my pilot light, which has at times been neglected but never gone out, and I sometimes turn on and allow the pilot to become a full flame. Doing it helps me do it more often.