The Softening
કોમળતાની લાગણી.રિચાર્ડ રુડ દ્વારા
કોમળતા એ તમામ આધ્યાત્મિક અભ્યાસોના મહાન રહસ્યોમાંનું એક છે. જ્યારે આપણે કોમળ બનીએ છીએ ત્યારે પાણી જેવા બનીએ છીએ.
આપણે જીવન ને આપણી પાસે આવવા દઈએ છીએ.
આપણે જીવનના પ્રવાહ પર વિશ્વાસ રાખીએ છીએ અને તે આપણને જે દિશામાં જ્યાં લઇ જાય ત્યાં લઈ જવાની મંજૂરી આપીએ છીએ.
આ સાચી શક્તિ છે કારણ કે તે પ્રેમમાંથી આવે છે, અને પ્રેમ એ બ્રહ્માંડની સૌથી કોમળ વસ્તુ છે, અને હા, તેમ છતાં તે સૌથી શક્તિશાળી છે.
જ્યારે તમે તમારી જાત પ્રત્યે, અન્યો પ્રત્યે અને જીવન પ્રત્યે તમારા વલણને કોમળ કરો છો, ત્યારે તમે તમારી અંદર રહેલ સ્વભાવીક પ્રજ્ઞા બહાર લાવો છો.
તમારું શરીર કોમળ થાય છે, તમારા વિચારો કોમળ થાય છે, અને તમારું હૃદય કોમળ થાય છે.
કોમળતા દ્વારા, તમે કોઈ પણ જાતના દબાણ વિના, સ્પષ્ટતા અને હેતુ સાધી શકો છો.
તમારું જીવન નિરંતર સંઘર્ષ ને બદલે સૌમ્યતા થી અભિવ્યક્ત થતું જાય છે.
ચિંતન માટેના બીજ પ્રશ્નો:
- તમારા માટે કોમળતા નો શું અર્થ થાય છે ?
- શું તમે એવા કોઈ ક્ષણની વ્યક્તિગત ઘટના વર્ણવી શકો છો જ્યારે તમે કોમળતા દર્શાવી હોય અને તમારી અંદરની સ્વભાવીક પ્રજ્ઞા ને બહાર લાવી શક્યા હોય?
- સતત સંઘર્ષ માં રહેવાને બદલે સૌમ્યતા થી અભિવ્યક્ત થવામાં તમને શું મદદ કરે છે?
Richard Rudd is a teacher, mystic and poet.
SEED QUESTIONS FOR REFLECTION: What does softening mean to you? Can you share a personal story of a time you softened and were able to release the natural wisdom within you? What helps you gently unfold instead of being in a constant battle?
Add Your Reflection
17 Past Reflections
On Jan 21, 2025 Steven Crisp wrote :
This really spoke to me. Busy going through my inbox, it just grabbed hold of something inside me. Spoke to me. Resonated and felt true. It pierced many of my own narratives: Diligence. Hard work. Conviction. Stick-to-itiveness. It quickly, well, "softened" me.
Post Your Reply
On Jan 21, 2025 Cee wrote :
This is not so much a reflection but a deep sense of gratitude for Mr. Rudd's profound words regarding the softness of awareness. The disappearance of hard edges and pointy bits being the result of acceptance and abiding. Thank you Mr. Rudd.
Post Your Reply
On Jan 21, 2025 stream wrote :
Oh wow! the message 0f this article is synchronistically amazingly timely for me. It came in the same batch of emails with a message from a man who has been " ghosting " me for it seems over a year. My initial emotional response felt "hard" ( I guess defensive).
Now, I am beginning to pay attention to my reactiveness and return to my breathing and my
mantra of " I forgive myself, I forgive everybody and everything else" and I will take the time to "soften" more today, to allow myself to find what my heart and soul really want to say and discover what I really want from this man and more significantly what I need from this interaction. So, I am grateful for receiving Richard Rudd's article and for the other reflections I have read. Mahalo
Now, I am beginning to pay attention to my reactiveness and return to my breathing and my
mantra of " I forgive myself, I forgive everybody and everything else" and I will take the time to "soften" more today, to allow myself to find what my heart and soul really want to say and discover what I really want from this man and more significantly what I need from this interaction. So, I am grateful for receiving Richard Rudd's article and for the other reflections I have read. Mahalo
Post Your Reply
On Jan 21, 2025 Daniel wrote :
The first thing that came to my mind was surrender. Most of my adult life was consumed with addiction. I had to surrender/softened in order to let life penetrate my soul.
When I softened my grip and let go, I naturally experienced the miracles in life.
I never realized that a life of love and compassion could be so strong yet soft..
When I softened my grip and let go, I naturally experienced the miracles in life.
I never realized that a life of love and compassion could be so strong yet soft..
Post Your Reply
On Jan 21, 2025 Gururaj wrote :
As I have moved into senior citizen hood , and thanks also to still prevailing traditions , I often sense a softness in the response of service providers and any public person i come across and request help from.
Speaking of myself , a feeling of gratefulness and sufficiency in me helps to manifest softness towards others apart from the usual trigger of the vulnerability and innocence in the other person
Speaking of myself , a feeling of gratefulness and sufficiency in me helps to manifest softness towards others apart from the usual trigger of the vulnerability and innocence in the other person
Post Your Reply
On Jan 19, 2025 Rashmi Kulshreshtha wrote :
I believe that we human should always be helpful for each other that is the basic requirement for our country existence.
Post Your Reply
On Jan 17, 2025 Victoria Crawford wrote :
I am drawn to softness....the softness found in feathers, my dog's fur, my granddaughter's long hair that I hold as I put it into a pony tail. Softness feels respectful to me. It allows for space. When I think of softness with people, soft eyes come to mind. Eyes that see clearly and yet eyes that are kind, receptive and understanding....perhaps compassionate is the word.
I open when around softness. I open my mind, heart, and my body relaxes. As I reflect on softness, the word 'peace' comes to mind...... it's a peaceful word.
I open when around softness. I open my mind, heart, and my body relaxes. As I reflect on softness, the word 'peace' comes to mind...... it's a peaceful word.
1 reply: Stream | Post Your Reply
On Jan 17, 2025 David Doane wrote :
Rudd's statement is medicine for me. For me, softness means: allowing, being at ease, comfortable with my truth and with what is, openness, acceptance of self and other and the situation, equanimity. Softness is not weak and not indifferent; softness is strong while being at ease and caring. I'm aware of still becoming more soft in general and more soft in my releasing the natural wisdom within. I have not been good at that . I'm critical. I'm a pusher and arguer. Softness may be the last attribute I consider spiritual to be developing in me, and I think it is a fundamental one. For me to be soft it seems necessary for me to be conscious of being soft, being calm, gently unfolding instead of being in a constant battle. I remind myself to be soft, and sometimes am that way. After years of attention to emotional and spiritual growth, softness is the most difficult for me to embody and be.
Post Your Reply
On Jan 17, 2025 BarbaraS. wrote :
What helps me gently unfold is meditation and coming back to my breath. Softening to what emotions emotions come up, softening to just being there to listen to someone, softening to look at the beauty around me, softening to see beauty, pain, loss, suffering, joy, and happiness in others. It's all part of this existence. If we can alleviate suffering in someway, we must try.
Post Your Reply
On Jan 16, 2025 Catherine Carney-Feldman wrote :
The first time I had breast cancer was when I was 48. It was invasive and had spread to my lymph nodes . I had no idea of the outcome. Up until then I had a very tough and independent approach to life and challenges. I was always the care giver and helped anyone in need. What I discovered when I had cancer, that accepting help from others brought them joy. Accepting help was not a sign of weakness but came from acceptance. Being soft can be a sign of true strength. Being vulnerable is admitting being human and connects me to those around me in a deep and meaningful way.
3 replies: Barbaras., David, Barbaras. | Post Your Reply
On Jan 16, 2025 Jagdish P Dave wrote :
The passage The Softening authored by Richrd Rudd is very illuminating to me. It reminds me of the saying Simple Living And High Thinking. Our simple living can be enriching and fulfilling. Our basic needs to survive and enhance our living are very few. Sadly we are not content with what we have. We ask for more and more material things and possessions. We believe the more we have, the more merry and happy we will be. The thirst for having more possessions is rarely quenched.The more possessions we have the less we become fulfilled.
We need to be aware of this hunger and thirst for more material possessions. There is no end to this thirst.
Before I came to the US, we were relatively poor. However, we had inward richness, inner wealth of peace, joy, fulfillment and gratification.
When I came to the richest country in the world I saw inward poverty.I believe in living a balanced life. Living in a balanced way I feel happy, peaceful and fulfilled.
I believe there is light of awa... [View Full Comment]