Without Ourselves
A clear glass orb floats
above the cliff
just off the edge
representing our conscience, souls, and selves
what if it shatters?
becoming a puzzle of icy glass
and then nothing at all?
what if it disappears?
what would we fight for?
would we still know ourselves
for the loving,
backstabbing,
beautiful,
horrible,
emotional,
heartless,
empathetic,
shunning,
wonderful people we are?
could we go on without ourselves?
without a foothold?
step lightly, they say
don’t leave your self like a scarf in the forest
like a sandal on the beach
tuck it in safe
don’t free it
don’t lose it
don’t go without a railing
but could we be more
without the limits
of our own selves?
if we could take the risk
would we end up not being in trouble after all?
would we be freeing ourselves
by letting go of our SELVES?
we’d have identity
of what we know
and what we’ve learned
but not the burden
of the world.
Afton Wilder is a 10 year old, who recently started a blog of her poems.
SEED QUESTIONS FOR REFLECTION: What does freeing ourselves by letting go of our SELVES mean to you? Can you share a personal story of a time you took the risk of going beyond the limits of your own self? What helps you have an identity of what you have learned without the burden of the world?
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20 Past Reflections
On Mar 5, 2024 Diane Sutton wrote :
"I am that I am" a spiritual being, growing in the finite, toward Infinity. I am not an ego. I am not "of the world". I am. I Am ... an important part of Infinity.
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On Mar 5, 2024 Yvonne wrote :
Letting go of the Selves- the mystery that bookends life. The before birth and the after death. It is indeed a mystery
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On Mar 5, 2024 Mia wrote :
A chronic Lyme condition was my teacher. Going from lots of activities to a mostly non-active life was the teacher to let go of previously known identities. It was seven years of redefining what matters and part of that was to get clear about the choice of people that were able to be with me right where I was versus having to take care of their discomfort at my condition. The issues that used to trigger grief or anxiety may still happen but my response is more of curiosity instead of feeling the need to respond in ways that are not energetically kind to myself or others. When I get snagged on an issue now, (because that's a reality too) I love reframing everything by remembering that this isn't even my body and I am here due to the collaboration of cells from my mother and father. Then curiosity can take me to a new place, maybe even opening the confinement of identity to allow more investigation.
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On Mar 4, 2024 Ute Arnold wrote :
I observe without end, myself, the world…
then go to the woods and let them speak, returned mostly cleansed with no need to add anything
then go to the woods and let them speak, returned mostly cleansed with no need to add anything
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On Mar 4, 2024 Mary Thomson. wrote :
My immediate response to this was a series of situations in which I volunteered to do things I was afraid to do. I seemed to do this a lot growing up.
One example was having a nasogastric tube (a tube through my nose to my stomach) inserted in nursing school in front of my class. A memorable experience in many ways and not just for me. It took me outside of my experience into seeing things from different angles.
When I read this and look at the picture what springs to mind is the separation of the orb and the fullness of it all that being broken open would open one up to.
This is what happens when one lets go and is open to an expansion of consciousness - it’s less of ‘letting go’ in my mind as opening up and seeing things differently in order to be connected to the whole.
One example was having a nasogastric tube (a tube through my nose to my stomach) inserted in nursing school in front of my class. A memorable experience in many ways and not just for me. It took me outside of my experience into seeing things from different angles.
When I read this and look at the picture what springs to mind is the separation of the orb and the fullness of it all that being broken open would open one up to.
This is what happens when one lets go and is open to an expansion of consciousness - it’s less of ‘letting go’ in my mind as opening up and seeing things differently in order to be connected to the whole.
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On Mar 4, 2024 Anil Pandit wrote :
Prefer to consider my glass orb merging with the universal space, and the energy therein drawing upon the universal energy to propagate as directed. Shattering will then actually be blooming up.
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On Mar 1, 2024 David Doane wrote :
From the mouths of babes -- triggering for me heavy thoughts. I believe I have a social image or self, called my ego, and am a real essence or self, called soul. Letting go of ego self is letting go of my image including the roles and trappings by which I am identified. If I freed real self of all that, I'd be untrapped except that essence or soul would still be embodied. If I let go of body too, I would be just essence which is Ultimate Existence and no longer of this world. For me the risk in my learning what I have stated here is to not be part of the thinking and beliefs of the mainstream. I don't understand the third question. What helps me is that my understanding is how I am, it's my truth, and being together with that is satisfying. For me, the world is a burden in some ways and a joy in some ways, and overall I feel freer of the world with the beliefs or vision that I have.
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On Feb 29, 2024 Jagdish P Dave wrote :
Who am I? What is my true identity? Why am I here? What is my original face? What is my original voice? What is my authentic self? What is my purpose of being in this world? What if nobody walks with me on the road with me? What is my vision?These are very important existential questions for me. There is one SELF. There is one FACE. There is one VOICE. There is one authentic ME. If I lose my true identity, I become a multiple personality. I lost my real self. I lose my real voice. It is not that easy to be myself but it is essential for me to listen to my voice and sing my own song. As I am reflecting on this question Rabindranth Tagore's song Ekl Cholo Re comes to my mind. Walk alone if no one is standing by. Open your mind and speak all alone to be in harmony with all existence. This kind of authentic identity is not against universal identity. I am a part of the whole, not apart from the whole, oneness in manyness.
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On Feb 29, 2024 David B wrote :
Beautiful, Afton! From my experience, I would add that our consciousness, souls, and selves are subtly different things. If we can let go of those little selves, allow them to shatter, we will fall back into our souls, our pure consciousness, our essential being. We would indeed then be without burden but we would continue in our infinite, eternal nature. We would fulfill your vision, and more. Thank you for sharing.
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On Feb 29, 2024 Cholena wrote :
Delightful poem and inquiry.
"but could we be more
without the limits
of our own selves"
I attempt to get to a place of letting go of self to find myself by dancing with the polarities of the Uniquely Personal and Universally Divine.
Within the dance is stillness and moments where I am me, yet not me.
Non dualism takes practice. I'm grateful for the awareness and ability to practice
"but could we be more
without the limits
of our own selves"
I attempt to get to a place of letting go of self to find myself by dancing with the polarities of the Uniquely Personal and Universally Divine.
Within the dance is stillness and moments where I am me, yet not me.
Non dualism takes practice. I'm grateful for the awareness and ability to practice
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On Feb 29, 2024 Eisha wrote :
I am in a space where I prefer oblivion and invisibility over the ambition to network and attain glory in my fields and it has been most freeing and unburdening to have an identity that doesn’t define me with work or the people I meet.
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On Feb 29, 2024 stream wrote :
Wow! I recently reflected on days I spend doing yoga, burying myself naked in warm sand and taking long floating swim in ocean. That seems like the closest I come to letting go of my self. Even singing the other night in a harmonic 100 being choir , I was aware of MY sound.
Those are times I am close to being without "the burden of the world" however I suspect that all these wars going on and other violence and personal trauma were still lurking in my consciousness even when I am close to lost in bliss of nature or song. I am now imagining truly letting go into selflessness.
Those are times I am close to being without "the burden of the world" however I suspect that all these wars going on and other violence and personal trauma were still lurking in my consciousness even when I am close to lost in bliss of nature or song. I am now imagining truly letting go into selflessness.