Although Carrie had written this with a different context, I see it resonate with some issues facing some relationships, wherein we allow ourselves to be used , ignoring the infringements in the beginning till a time wherein it becomes imperative to take the time out and take up the messy work of healing the relationship. Many times just in order that we do not shake up the status quo , we allow small misbeahaviours or small troubles not to come up to the surface. They are brushed underneath the Cupboard and they lie there. One day we are not able to take it any more and we are forced to take up the issues and resolve them, which maybe messy or like opening up the wall, and a big relook into the whole aspect. We are forced to come out of our comfort zone and begin the messy work of mending or tending to what is the real problem.
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On Nov 23, 2022David Doane wrote :
Good points you make, and they probably apply to every relationship in some way at some time.
On Nov 23, 2022 Shyam Gupta wrote :