If You Really Pay Attention

wow! I need to listen more to ppl's hearts! It's so easy to react, but not so easy to feel what others feel, and understand why they do and say things. a friend of mine in our string quartet got very offended and downright mean, when i made suggestions. At first I felt hurt, then I listened, and God told me, I reminded her of her mother. Finally we talked, and she told me that her mother was very strict, and never satisfied with her daughter's performance. After that we had a much better understanding.