For me, the notion that love is the only justice means love is realizing that we are one, there is no me/us and them, there is only us, and what I do to the so called other, be it hurtful or kind, I do to myself. That is built in justice. The third side is awareness that I and the so called other are one, and that awareness and living it is healing. Years ago, I was cheated out of some money by a colleague. I harbored anger for a long time until I began to be aware that I had qualities like the qualities I resented in my colleague, until I became aware that I cooperated in my being cheated, and until I became aware that I and he are one. With such awareness I went to the third side, which is healing. For me, it's not that I see myself in others -- it's that I and the other are one. What helps me be aware that we are one is being open to that awareness, allowing myself to make that awareness part of me, and experiencing satisfaction and peace as a result of that awareness.
On Mar 7, 2020 David Doane wrote :