'He cheated me, he insulted me, he beat me, he robbed me'--surely letting go of such thoughts will bring peace."
--attributed to Buddha
"The direct use of force is such a poor solution to any problem, it is generally employed only by small children and large nations." --David Friedman
I think it's ok to fight. It's a part of life. But we can avoid so many petty bouts of negativity if we can over-stand a situation and see things objectively if we try to understand where another person's opposition comes from. It's surprising sometimes how quickly you can analyze a situation for the best outcome if you just practice taking one step back.
On Jun 17, 2008 supun wrote :