I have amazing memories of my childhood. I can recount them and even see them in my mind today. I assumed for a long time that most people can remember such meaningful events, but I have learned that isn't always so. Many of my memories are unpleasant, but not all of them. I think the stressful times have made me less strong interiorly. I can put up a good facade when necessary, but I know the damage to my inner core has lasted my whole life. I have countered it successfully, for the most part, but the truth is that those painful moments have left me vulnerable. Because I have such vivid memories, I've often thought I should write a book about them, simply to alert parents that their actions regarding their children shapes those youngsters more than they know. For example, any violence toward one another or their child could leave a lasting scar. A dysfunctional family is detrimental to the development of children who witness physical or emotional battles. Verbal assaults, as well as physical, have long-lasting effects. You might think he or she is too young to remember, but that is surely debatable. Too much pressure, too much anger and too much dictating or forcing will undermine the wholeness of your youngsters.
On Aug 8, 2024 Patricia Hardy wrote :