Ahhhh- If I hold onto my belief about who you are I do not allow for who you and I are becoming. Freezing any moment limits the potential mysterious unknown expansion of what might be.
My partner speaks of the dynamics of expansion which for me is accepting her as she is regardless of any conception of who I may desire her to be or what I may be wanting her to do with me.
This feels like real Love. Acceptance. To love is to be happy with. Rilke said, " In Love practice only this, letting each other go" . My experience is that this releasing makes room for the Love that I need and want.
On Dec 14, 2023 stream wrote :