To Find Something, Don't Look For It

The best way to find something is not to go looking for it is said in the Japanese culture as well. ( I am Japanese.) Too much focus on searching and moving will get you nowhere. Rather, better stop and let it go. And then it will come to you at the right time. This is balancing too much focus and neutralizing for making a natural flow, I think. The Chynenne way is to wait until your blindness disappears for the aha moment. It's interesting. It's like conscious of one's blindness and removing it by being conscious of it. I find my wife revealing that she doesn't care about my age of 38 and she was 28. That was being open to possibility in my case. I give my case to my guardian angels and let it happen. This helps in my case.