Irony Of Marriage

Marriage which takes away freedom to be oneself, to be an aithentic loving self creates imprisonsnment for both the man and the woman. Such marraiges make each other's life miserable and breaks up intimate relationships. Addording to my experience undondiotional love enriches and deepens relationships. Sadly many marriages have caused heart aches and head aches and theyresult in separation and divorce. According to me marraige helps each other blossom and makes life fragrant. I also believe that freedom without responsibility is conducive to failure and unhappiness. I remember Carl Ung's prononcement when he came to America,. He said,," America needs two statues: Statutue of Liberty on the East coast and statue of Rsponsibility on the West coast. Freedom without responsibilty is license to do whatever one wants to do. It is a sign of self-will and immaturity. Namaste. I married Vanleela who showed true love and courage to marry me born in a poor family. She married me though her father was against her choice. Both of us loved deeply and our love florished our life. Such loving relationship fuels the engine of our experience. She passed away a few years ago but she lives in our heart for ever. Namaste. Jagdish P Dave

Jagdish, Thank you for sharing your beautiful story. It is very uplifting! Also totally agree that being responsible is the way of life! :)