When there is no visible alternative, nailed to a cross of pain and suffering may be an appropriate metaphor even if one many of us do not relish. I have felt nailed to the cross: trapped in physical weakness, financial devastation and emotional cruelty with no one to help and no where to go. And the opening was a miracle. I hopped in my car to escape, with no money and no destination. I felt I had no one to help. While I was driving a long-lost friend phoned, and I learned her sister had fallen and needed someone to help her for a few weeks. The sky opened and I sang gratitude. I had a safe, quiet space and a purpose.
This so perfectly worded. I am grateful to add this to my collection of dynamic messages nd share it with others. As a child I was taught to act without thought of outcome, but it was barren and I gravitated to a period of alters, sounds and sacred objects. But it was empty. Sometimes I hold an object or a sound as a symbol. When I deliver food to my elderly neighbor, when I listen as we walk, when I free the bird from the netting, Last week a woman smiled and spoke in the grocery aisle. That smile awakened me to my tense expression. I went back and thanked her for that smile and greeting, and she glowed. I think these smallest gestures are practice without outcome that keep us alive in the present.
Congratulations on your devotion to helping others heal. I too teach trauma recovery with many tools. I have explored many paths and methods. Love and compassion are what we bring to others so they feel safe to heal.
Blessings for your path.
On Dec 31, 2023 Judy Carran wrote on Limitation Becomes Space, by Eckhart Tolle: