in my experience--when being attentive--there is no gap between the in breath and the out breath.if you are breating "unconsiously".. there is nothing there.. it is either ---in-- or --out---
"Pay attention to the gap -- the gap between two thoughts, the brief, silent space between words in a conversation, between the notes of a piano or flute, or the gap between the in-breath and the out-breath".
of course i could be wrong. :)
On Jul 10, 2007 mark stodghill wrote on Ten Rules For Being Human, by Cherie Carter-Scott: